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PARTRNER INTIMACY QUIZ
April Brown
2022-12-08T02:13:00+00:00
PARTNER INTIMACY QUIZ
Identify where you are in your relationship, how compatible you & your partner are, and your love language to better understand your relationship. Boost your relationship intimacy for a more satisfying and fulfilling relationship.
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SPIRITUAL INTIMACY
My partner & I are comfortable sharing our personal values, beliefs, & religious views.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
My partner & I demonstrate support over each other’s values, beliefs, & religious views.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
My partner and I both prioritize spiritual intimacy.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
EMOTIONAL INTIMACY
I feel that my partner & I make a strong effort to spend quality time with each other.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
I feel that my partner & I are able to vulnerably share our feelings, likes, & dislikes.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
My partner & I both value maintaining a strong emotional connection with each other.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
AESTHETIC INTIMACY
My partner & I often share experiences of beauty together, like nature, music, art, history, and worldly things.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
We value having quiet nights together, creating meaningful memories with each other over spending time with friends.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
We have the ability to admire each other's appearance without the need or desire to have physical, sexual, or romantic conflict with them.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
RECREATIONAL INTIMACY
My partner & I feel more connected when we spend time enjoying activities together.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
My partner & I spend adequate time participating in recreational activities to either destress or feel closer to each other.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
My partner & I enjoy engaging in play to enjoy time outside of work.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
WORK INTIMACY
My partner & I spend adequate time working on our homefront together.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
I experience more closeness with my partner when we regularly work together at home.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
My partner & I are able to separate our work lives from our relationship, we leave our work stresses out.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
COMMUNITY INTIMACY
My partner & I spend adequate time participating in advocacy, charity, outreach, social justice, and/or community initiatives.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
I feel closer to my partner when we participate in advocacy, charity, outreach, social justice, and/or community initiatives.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
My partner & I enjoy participating in advocacy, charity, outreach, social justice, and/or community initiatives together.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
CREATIVE INTIMACY
My partner & I spend adequate time creating things and/or cooking meals together because this makes us feel closer.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
My partner & I enjoy creating things and/or cooking meals together.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
My partner & I agree over which means of creativity work best for us to bond and connect.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
HUMOR INTIMACY
My partner and I laugh together often and have fun just being in each other's presence.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
My partner & I prioritize laughing & experiencing joy together.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
My partner & I go out of our way to make sure that we prioritize and experience joy & laughter together.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
INTELLECTUAL INTIMACY
My partner and I share ideas and concepts.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
My partner and I demonstrate mutual respect for each other’s intellectual capabilities and viewpoints.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
I feel that my partner and I spend adequate time having meaningful conversation about intellectual topics.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
FRIENDSHIP INTIMACY
My partner and I prioritize having regular dates with each other.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
I believe my partner and I are friends.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
My partner and I choose dates that help us to remember why we fell in love with each other in the first place.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
COMMUNICATION INTIMACY
My partner & I prioritize active and reflective listening with each other when we communicate.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
I feel confident that we can express our needs and wants to each other without leading to conflict in a safe and open environment.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
My partner and I check-in with each other regularly to make sure that we are understanding each other and communicating sufficiently and efficiently.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
FINANCIAL INTIMACY
My partner and I can have productive conversations about finances & what money means to each of us.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
My partner and I have a shared plan for budgeting, spending, and saving.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
My partner & I are in agreement over working toward similar financial goals.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
CONFLICT INTIMACY
I utilize appropriate techniques such as, “I” statements, sandwich and compromise methods, and reassuring touch (if needed and appropriate) when communicating to resolve conflict.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
My partner & I prioritize resolving conflcit with each other and making sure to not go to bed angry with each other.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
My partner & I have expressed to each other what we do well when resolving conflict and we have communicated what we agree to do better.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
CRISIS INTIMACY
I feel that when my partner & I are faced with a crisis, we are able to converse together, support one another and develop a plan together on how we will move through the crisis.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
Up to this point, crisis has brought us together more often than it has torn us apart.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
I am confident in our ability to handle crises.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
FORGIVENESS INTIMACY
I apologize to my partner when I know I have hurt his or her feelings and he or she accepts my apology without resentment.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
When my partner apologizes to me, I accept his or her apology without resentment.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
When needed in forgiveness, I have asked my partner, “how can I do better” or “how can I help?”
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
PHYSICAL INTIMACY
I hug, kiss and touch my partner when I feel my partner needs it.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
I hug, kiss and touch my partner when I need to feel close to my partner.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
I enjoy when my partner hugs, kisses, and touches me everyday even when he or she is not initiating sex.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
SEXUAL INTIMACY
I enjoy sexually pleasing my partner and my partner sexually satisfies me.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
I understand my partner’s sexual needs and they understand mine because we have communicated it to each other.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
My sexual drive is similar to that of my partner’s.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
PARENTING INTIMACY
My partner and I are on the same page in raising our children.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
I demonstrate my appreciation for what I feel makes my partner an amazing parent.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree
I feel good about my relationship with my children.
Strongly disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Agree
Strongly agree